I wrote a little article for Grazia on why i’m trying to encourage more women back into the kitchen. Here’s the link to the original article with my Coconut Fish Curry recipe, or else it’s also here below…
The humble curry is the UK’s best-loved dish and food writer Meera Sodha wants to keep it that way. Her new cookbook Made in India: Cooked in Britain is a new Grazia Daily favourite; all about easy, fresh and simple dishes – just like authentic Indian cuisine really is. Often however Indian food can have a complicated rep – many people will put off cooking it until the weekend because of the long list of ingredients, the time it takes to marinate the meat or the slow-cooking many dishes involve. Meera’s recipes couldn’t be further from this. From Coconut Fish Curry (recipe below) to Oven Roasted Chicken Tikka her book features over 130 recipes that are perfect for the busy working girl (or boy).
Meera’s main goal is to show how simple Indian food can be to cook, but she also has another mission in life – to preserve her heritage. She fears that the traditional authentic curry could soon be a thing of the past as many Indian girls seem to be losing the art of home cooking. Typically, Indian recipes are passed down from mother to daughter, by word of mouth, and are not written down. However, this has changed dramatically in recent years. Here Meera argues that you can still be a career woman and a cook, and asks whether Indian families have a responsibility to pass down this tradition and knowledge.
‘I grew up in a home where food was the most important thing and the second most important was doing your homework. The kitchen was the cornerstone of our family: a byword for love, get-togethers, and tradition but an education was the future; ‘a key to a better life’ according to my mother. So I’d always be shunted upstairs to my bedroom after dinner to work on ‘extra-curricular’ exam papers rather than learning how to cook. In my mum’s eyes, having a professional job; becoming a doctor, accountant, lawyer or banker was tantamount to success. You could say that she was right, if I look at my Indian friends and cousins now, they all in their 30’s flying up career ladders, iPhone 5 in hand, Instagramming festivals and food and some are even buying houses (yes, even in this market). All markers of modern successful women: but none know how to make a home-cooked curry.
Does it matter? At the risk of sounding anti-feminist, or anti-progress, I think it does.
I ended up back in the family kitchen only by chance after a first week at university eating awful canteen food. Unable to sustain myself on pret sandwiches alone, I called mum. ‘What recipes darling, I’ve got nothing written down’. On hearing this I panicked, got back on the first train home and started feverishly collecting the family recipes fastidiously noting down everything she did and said. What I learned was more than I’d bargained for. I learned how to cook and feed myself properly but learning about food unlocked incredible old family stories too. I learned all about my eccentric grandfather who set up the first Coca Cola bottling factory in Kenya and was the Bear Grylls of his generation: he used to catch antelope and bake them overnight in the earth covered in spices. I learned what my parents ate in poverty: dal and food sneaked from other peoples Indian weddings in Wembley.
I hate to think all this and so much more could have been lost. It was education that was richer beyond any of the years I’d spent in school or at university. In the last decade, we women (Indian in particular) have made such swift a departure from generation housewife to generation career woman that I think we’re in danger of losing knowledge of our roots and culture. While there will always be a tension, between tradition and modernizing to succeed in the 21st century, I just hope that other women will take a train ride back home and ask the same questions of their mothers and grandmothers. It’s amazing how many hidden anecdotes can be found in a bowl of curry.’
Meera Sodha’s Made in India: Cooked in Britain (Fig Tree) is out now.